Welcome—You’re in the Right Place

Welcome to where neuroscience meets emotional healing to help you move from reaction to resilience. I’m Dr. Cindy Sholes—a neuroscientist, author, speaker, hypnotherapist, and founder of Mind Wave Institute. For more than two decades, I’ve dedicated my work to understanding why people become stuck in emotional patterns and, more importantly, how they can create lasting change.
Triggered: From Reaction to Resilience – A New Path to Mental Wellbeing

From a neuroscience perspective, what we call “triggers” are actually patterned responses in the brain and nervous system—formed through past experiences and reinforced over time.
And here’s the part most people don’t realize:
Patterns can change.
Through the brain’s natural ability known as Neuroplasticity, we are not stuck with the emotional habits we’ve inherited or developed.
We can rewire them.
Be the Vibe You Want to See in the World

Arthur Brooks, in his insightful book Love Your Enemies, argues that we live in an addictive culture of contempt. He suggests that if we consciously and intentionally generate loving-kindness in our own hearts, we can not only free ourselves from that addiction but also positively influence the world around us. I couldn’t agree more. From […]
The Sacred Offering: Lessons from a Lone Tree

Deep in Yosemite National Forest lies Lake Eleanor, a clear mountain lake that has been a family touchstone for decades. My husband and I first backpacked there when our children were in diapers, and though we hadn’t returned in ten years, we chose it as the place to celebrate his 60th birthday. Driving from Groveland […]